Relationship Conflict

Couples Counseling North Vancouver

What does Conflict Mean in a Relationship?

Relationship Conflict

At the first mentioning of the word conflict it is quite likely that it would represent a negative or unproductive interaction. Something to be avoided or reduced as much as possible. Conflict has a negative connotation. Generally it is not something that people look forward to or are willing to approach. The probable reason why is because most people do not experience constructive communications during conflict and, in my opinion, the most important stage of these types of communications, the repair or revisit simply does not happen.

Revisiting an Upset

Why do we not revisit and upset or conflict. This may be due to the unsatisfactory ending of the conflict and then not wanting to open it up again without having a new skill set. Without some new learning the leftover unwanted feeling, such as; not being heard, fear of rejection, hurt etc., most likely will be experienced again. Hence, “I don’t want to open up that can of worms and feel like I did” makes sense. 

Dr. Pinaud is a registered Clinical Counsellor (BCACC#1992) based in North Vancouver, British Columbia, who specializes in relationship issues that include couples, families, and single individuals who may have had unsuccessful experiences in the past or are wanting to be involved in a long term committed relationship for the first time.

Over 20 years ago, Dr. Pinaud went through a painful divorce. At that time he enrolled in a course called “Rebuilding” by Dr. Bruce Fisher, which became the catalyst for significant growth and sparked his interest in Psychology. As a result he was trained and became a facilitator for this course. This led to the completion of a Masters in Psychology and a Doctorate in Counselling Psychology. The learning and passion for Dr. Pinaud's work continues to grow.

http://www.martinpinaud.ca/ or email him pinaud@shaw.ca